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Fun, Down to Earth Lesbian Couple Looking for Sperm Donor - Possible Uncle Figure or Co-Parent For the Right Man or Couple

City: Bloomington, Indiana

Hello! My Partner and I have been together for 9 great years. We desperately want to share our joy and excitement about life with children. Ideally we want to have all legal rights, but are very open to an uncle or co-parent role for the right man or couple. Our thought are, how could it possibly be detrimental to a child to have more adults that love him/her.

Our parenting style - Do what works!

Our reason for wanting kids - We love kids, and we want to give them a chance to grow up free from any judgment about who they are, or what life is right for them.

Our goal with our kids - Inspire and Encourage their greatest talents and strongest passions.

The most important quality in a donor - A good heart!

If you are interested, please email us at 2futuremoms@gmail.com. We look forward to hearing from you :)

[Posted on 9 May 2008]




Single Musical Female Looking for Donor and/or Co-Parent

City: Toronto, Canada

I am 33.

I am divorced.

I am a singer and theatre lover.

I am looking for a male (orientation matters not) to be either a donor or a co-parent.

I am open to discussing how the donation will take place.

I want to start my family because I have a lot of love waiting for my children to be born.

Please e-mail me at baby4amz@gmail.com if you are interested in exploring the possibility.

Pictures of me here: http://annieb.smugmug.com.

[Posted on 6 May 2008]



Tall, Attractive Woman Seeking Sperm Donor or Co-parent

City: Houston

Hi, I am a 25 year old, six foot, beautiful, curvy, African American, heterosexual female. My mind, body, and soul are precious to me. I am an open minded, talkative, "big kid". I love to go outside and play tag with the neighborhood kids. I still hate it when I get caught! On to bigger things, I have a bubbly personality, team spirit, I love to explore new things, cultures, and activities. I lived in Spain most of my childhood (speak Spanish fluently). I have two little boys, Korendez 5 years old and Kortez 4 years old. They are my pride and joy. As a little girl, I always told my mom I wanted several children. She would laugh it off and say "you say that now, but wait until you have them". I never lost sight of what I really wanted. I would like to have at least 4 children, but willing to have 6 max. I would like to have a water birth experience for my next pregnancy. Giving birth for the first time was breath taking. To know that I carried a little baby for nine months and delivered a healthy baby successfully, brought me so much joy. Some time in the future I want to be a surrogate mother for a loving couple. Baby dust to all true believers!

I really want a traditional lifestyle, I love to entertain, very family oriented!

Please contact me @ latashajackson143@hotmail.com if you are serious about having little bundles of joy!

[Posted on 6 May 2008]



Professionally Represented: Experienced Gestational Surrogate Located in Florida

Location: North FL Area

All you want is a baby. You've tried everything you know to conceive. You've ridden the roller coaster of emotions—hope, expectation, and devastating disappointment. We understand. We're here with Open Arms. And answers.

We have a wonderful woman who is waiting to be your Gestational Surrogate. Her name is Quiana.

Quiana is a wonderful 35 year old single mom of a 13 year old child and works in the customer service field. She has been a Gestational Surrogate in the past becoming pregnant on her first IVF attempt for a single male. Quiana leads a healthy life style, has a great health insurance policy and has a BMI of 28. She is willing to be a carrier for Intended Parents in the following situations:

  • A couple that lives in another state
  • A couple that lives in another country
  • A couple that already has children
  • Heterosexual Couple looking for Gestational Surrogate
  • Heterosexual Single Father
  • Heterosexual Single Mother
  • Homosexual Male Couple
  • Homosexual Female Couple
  • Homosexual Single Mother

If you would like to learn more about Quiana, Please contact Open Arms Consultants at the information provided below.

Open Arms Consultants cares about your hopes, dreams, and desire for a family. We offer sympathetic yet strong arms to hold your hand and help you walk down a new potential path toward parenting: Surrogacy and egg donation.

Please contact us for further information regarding all of our surrogates and egg donors.

Souad Dreyfus
3412, Clark Road. #100
Sarasota, Florida 34231
Ph: 941 741 4994
Fax: 941 744 1942

Info@OpenArmsConsultants.com

http://www.openarmsconsultants.com

[Posted on 5 May 2008]



Known Sperm Donor or Active Co-parent

City: San Francisco

Hello, I am a 43 year old healthy, athletic, stable, good hearted and successful professional gay black male who would like to share the opportunity to have a family as a co-parent or provide sperm as a known donor with other like minded and loving people.

I grew up drug free and in an upper middle class neighborhood in Northern California and continue to live as such today. I am height/weight proportionate and am blessed with my parent's youthful good looks. I have never broken a bone, never had a cavity or braces. My health is important to me; I practice safe sex and am STD-Free. I research and blog on health matters, nutrition, anti-aging and longevity because I plan to be here and in good health for many years to come.

I am well travelled, usually visiting Europe more than twice a year for business and pleasure. I love science fiction, drawing, friends and family.

I have always dreamed of being a father and as I gracefully grow older, would like to also share in giving that opportunity to others. I am selective and would like to find others without any genetic disorders. I would like to make sure that the recipient of my sperm can financially and emotionally support a child in a healthy environment. Please be in good health, stable and especially be willing to share your emotional background. I am quite known for having a big heart and would love the experience of being a father or donor uncle. Please contact me at pcpers@yahoo.com.

Stats: 43Yr, 5'11", 189lbs, 32w, Athletic Build, Profession: Global IT Manager

[Posted on 23 April 2008]



Queer Sperm Donor Sought by Lesbian Couple

Location: Utrecht, Netherlands

Lesbian couple trying to find Gay, Bisexual, or Trans donor to donate sperm for upcoming IVF treatment.

We are seeking someone tall, queer, fair complexion, and darker hair. Must be willing to sign over all parental rights and act as donor not 'father.'

We are a bi-racial lesbian couple, vegetarian, queer activists, who desperately want to start our family. A queer donor is most important to us because it is an important part of our own identities. We are American and experienced our childhoods on both coasts of the U.S. (Miami area and San Francisco area) and have moved to the Netherlands to pursue graduate school opportunities. We are strong believers in Queer community and we hope to find a donor who is also invested in community building in their own networks.

You should know that we will not terminate any resulting pregnancies, allow any genital surgeries (Intersex or circumcision) and will allow our children to dictate their gender identity and expression in whatever way feels most comfortable to them.

Your current location may not be an issue for us. We may be able to come to you, or arrange sperm to be shipped or you might be located in near one of the IVF centers that we have been in contact with. If it sounds like we are a good match, please e-mail us at lesbiansseekingdonor@gmail.com.


[Posted on 13 April 2008]



Searching for a Donor

City: Cincinnati

We are a very happily married lesbian couple that is in search for a sperm donor so we may add more children to our family.We are not looking for a co-parent, we are only looking for a donor. We will be taking FULL responsibilities for the child. Donor must be intelligent, drug and disease free, have good morals and the normal things that people will want their child to be. Please contact me via email at foundagain2006@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 8 April 2008]



Willing Father

City: San Antonio, TX

I'm 39 years old. Gay, in a 13 year relationship. Caucasian. Professional (architect), grad student (UT). I would like to become a father to a loving single woman or couple. Prefer lesbian couple because of similar life experiences, but straight couple is fine. I would like to baby sit and visit the child on a regular basis. I have a nice home and a stable life situation. If you're interested, please contact me at gferg12469@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 6 April 2008]



Sperm Donor, 36 Available - Paternal Rights Not Wanted

City: Concord, NH

I am a healthy 36 year-old male residing in New England who is open to donating sperm to an individual or couple. I am not seeking any parental rights, and desire to keep my greater privacy intact. Recipient takes full responsibility of the child. I have helped to produce one child thus far, and would enjoy the opportunity to do it again. I'd prefer the recipient be open to natural method; I have found at-home artificial insemination to be tedious and ineffective. I realize this arrangement will not be for everyone, but I figured I would be completely up-front.

Vital Information
  • General Location: NH
  • Age: 36
  • Type: Caucasian
  • Height: 6’
  • Weight: 164
  • Hair color: Brown
  • Eye color: Hazel
  • Skin: Fair
  • Build: Slender / Athletic
  • Overall health: Excellent
  • Profession: Design

Education

  • High School: Completed
  • College Major: Bachelor of Science in Photography and Design

 

Personality

I enjoy living simply and elegantly. Though I am friendly and work well with others, I tend to be a private person. Rather than being the center of attention, I prefer to engage in quiet, meaningful conversation. To my family and select friends I am loving and very loyal. I enjoy the outdoors and the solitude it brings. In society I like fine dinning, upscale nightlife, evening walks, good music and good books.

Donor Motivation

My motivation is to procreate, foremost. Though I do not intend on raising children myself, I nonetheless contain the natural propensity every living thing has to reproduce itself. If I can do so and in turn help someone’s dream of having a child of their own become a reality, I consider this a healthy symbiosis.

Contact me at m.adrian@comcast.net.

[Posted on 4 April 2008]


Single, Attractive Woman Seeks Co-Parent

City: Houston

I'm a Very Attractive 31 year old Latina Mix petite size 4,5'4", 120lbs, brown hair and eyes, lots of hair, caramel skin, toned, athletic. I'm looking for someone to help me raise 2 bouncing boys or (twins, hopefully triplets to get a girl). Race is not an issue, but I'd prefer a Caucasian, Black, Hispanic or Biracial Man; D.D.F. who is VERY Attractive/Athletic to Height and weight proportionate. Bi/Gay Masculine men ok. 5'11" and taller preferred...athletically inclined and 1200 plus SAT/high ACT /hazel, grey or blue eyes a plus.

I love kids and can't wait to have a few. And I want a man who feels the same....someone caring, masculine, Christian, professional who would make a wonderful (best friend) and father. I am looking and praying for what I call a Marriage Mate and Best Friend to co-parent a couple of children and raise family in a Traditional / Semi Traditional way.

Must be willing to be a active donor and we share all the fees and expenses involved in the process, and be open to a written standard agreement. Should you have any question, please don't hesitate to email me at peekaboocutie69@yahoo.com. Thank you and God bless you.

[Posted on 4 April 2008]



Lesbian Couple ISO Co-Parent or Open Donor

City: Windsor Mill

Hello, we are a happy, stable and committed lesbian couple looking to add more children to our family. We are currently raising my 17 y/o daughter from a previous relationship as well as going through the foster parenting system to give other children a safe haven. My partner and I are both interested in conceiving 1 or more children and we are hoping to find a donor that wants to be a 'DAD' or at the very least, open to having contact with the child as life progresses.

We are 31 & 35 y/o discrete and professional African American women looking for a healthy donor of any race to meet and establish a relationship to determine parenting compatibility.

We currently reside in Maryland, however we plan to relocate to Georgia within the next year. Please contact both or either of us at msbllucas@aol.com or kiaswebb@hotmail.com. Serious inquiries only and please have photographs to exchange.

Thank you,
KB-toys

[Posted on 23 March 2008]



Seeking Known Donor in the Washington, DC, VA, MD, PA, NJ, NYC Area

City: Washington, DC

Hello!

I am an attractive, educated and healthy heterosexual woman in her early 40s; I live in NW Washington, DC.

I am seeking a healthy sperm donor in the Washington, DC/ VA/ MD/PA/ NJ/NYC area who is interested in helping me in conceiving a baby. Due to my age, I have to do this as soon as possible. I am looking for a healthy, attractive, intelligent Caucasian male (gay or straight), hopefully in their 20s, 30s, or early 40s. Due to my age, the age of the father also makes a difference.

You would have no financial obligations, but I would like you to be a known donor, i.e. the child to be able to contact you and have a relationship with you. After having the baby, I might move away from the DC area, so I am looking for someone who would be ok with not seeing the child on a regular basis.

I live a healthy life-style and am looking for a similar donor; I am looking for someone in good health, with no family history of disease or addiction.

Please contact me at european_brunette@yahoo.com to start a conversation, to discuss the details and to exchange photos. I would also like to discuss STD, genetic tests you already have or need to take, and donor contract to be signed.

Thank you!

[Posted on 23 March 2008]



Co-Parenting

City: Hampton Roads, VA

I am a 38 y/o bisexual black male currently living in Hampton Roads, Virginia. I have completed my education, achieved my career goals and now I am ready to become a parent. I would like to co-parent with an intelligent, out going and healthy woman of any race. Please contact me at newtobronx@aol.com to discuss this further. I am geo flexible.

[Posted on 22 March 2008]



Lesbian Couple Seeks Donor

City: Columbus, OH

We are a lesbian couple in Columbus, OH and we are ready to begin our family. I am mixed, though primarily African American and my partner is African American. We are interested in a donor of a any race as our hearts are open and both of our families are of mixed cultures, so there is someone for everyone! :) My partner prefers no co-parenting. However I would like to have a name, photo, and possibly a phone number for the donor as we never know where life will take us and I would not force my child to not know their parents should they desire a relationship when they are older. We are attempting this site before going to a more traditional type of sperm bank. If you would like to discuss this more, please feel free to email us at michelledenise08@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 21 March 2008]



 

 

 

Co-Parent/Uncle Dad/Known Sperm Donor with Benefits

City: San Francisco, California

I'd like to develop a co-parent/Uncle Dad/known sperm donor with benefits (no, not THOSE kinds of benefits) arrangement with a thoughtful, health-conscious, well-educated Bay Area lesbian. My goal is to make positive contributions to the children's lives without being intrusive, which, as I see it, would negate any possible good that might come from my ongoing involvement.

Reasons why you might want to pick me:

  • easy to get along with (ask anyone who knows me)
  • healthy (recently rode my mountain bike over 3000 miles)
  • wealthy (we hedge fund managers do all right, as do our heirs)
  • well-educated (graduate degree from a well-known eastern business school)
  • good role model (awesome credit score, generous contributor to worthy causes, no criminal record, and don't smoke or do drugs, though I do have a drink or two now and then)
  • don't mind babysitting (probably should have put this higher on the list)

 

Other things (not necessarily good or bad) that may be of interest:

  • Caucasian, greying blond hair (but lots of it), blue eyes, 5'9", 53 years old, straight, divorced, no children
  • Raised Catholic - now try to live by Christ's teachings, but don't attend church anymore (too much hypocrisy in organized religion for my tastes) - am also strongly influenced by Buddhism
  • Triple Nine Society member (not sure if this means I have something worth having or if I could pass it on if I did, but some people seem to think so, so I'll put it out there)

If you think I might be the right donor for you, please email me at LookN4Momma@aol.com for pictures and other information. Please be aware, though, that I am going to be very careful about making this commitment. I must be able to completely trust you to raise children in a way consistent with my values - because I realize it will be utterly futile to attempt to change your parenting style later on.

[posted on 9 March 2008]



Seeking Lesbian (Couple) or Straight Female for Co-Parent

City: Atlanta

Hello, I am a 37 y/o African American male interested in helping a lesbian (couple) or straight female to have a child(ren). I would like to have some involvement with the child but how much or less is negotiable. I am healthy and financially secure. I am in a 12 yr committed relationship and would be there for the child if and when needed. I am open to all races. I am ready to meet and discuss all options and possibilities. Please email me at cdan2302@aol.com.

[Posted on 8 March 2008]



Professionally Represented Traditional Surrogate Seeks SERIOUS IP's

City: Orlando

Melanie is an awesome Traditional Surrogate from Central Florida looking for a couple/single to begin the journey of parenthood. She will work with couples who already have children, childless couples, singles, gay or lesbian. All testing as recent as December when her last couple could not agree on using a Florida Attorney and contract.

With a wonderful personality and an awesome sense of humor this surrogate is ready to be pregnant again.

She is a single mom of 2 beautiful children and has complete support from family and friends.

  • Does not smoke/drink/do drugs
  • Full term pregnancies with natural childbirth
  • 28 years old
  • 5'7" / 125 lbs
  • Brown hair / Brown Eyes

Melanie loves to cook, swim, read with the kids and music. She is available immediately.

If you are interested in her fees and pictures please contact me for more information.

With Warmest Regards & Baby Blessings,
Laura & Melanie

E-mail me at Angelmatcher@bellsouth.net.

[Posted on 8 March 2008]



Are you Looking for more than a Sperm Donor?

City: Long Island

Looking for a Caucasian single gay/straight woman in the N.Y. AREA who is looking for more than a sperm donor. I would like to be a father in some capacity, and I would totally accept our child living with you the new mom. I don't have much, but I offer all the love and support of an aspiring dad. I would like an opportunity to spend time on weekends whenever you need, after school, holidays or helping during summers in some capacity. I am a single 33 year-old gay male in excellent health living on Long Island, NY. I am a well-educated public school teacher to students with disabilities with excellent health insurance and benefits. I am 6'2" 170 lbs, dark hair blue eyes, Italian and British descent. ahxks2@netscape.net.

[Posted on 8 March 2008]




 

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