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Lesbian Couple ISO Co-Parent or Open Donor

Hello, we are a happy, stable and committed lesbian couple looking to add more children to our family. We are currently raising my 17 y/o daughter from a previous relationship as well as going through the foster parenting system to give other children a safe haven. My partner and I are both interested in conceiving 1 or more children and we are hoping to find a donor that wants to be a 'DAD' or at the very least, open to having contact with the child as life progresses.

We are 31 & 35 y/o discrete and professional African American women looking for a healthy donor of any race to meet and establish a relationship to determine parenting compatibility.

We currently reside in Maryland, however we plan to relocate to Georgia within the next year. Please contact both or either of us at msbllucas@aol.com or kiaswebb@hotmail.com. Serious inquiries only and please have photographs to exchange.

Thank you,
KB-toys

[Posted on 23 March 2008]

Seeking Lesbian (Couple) or Straight Female for Co-Parent

Hello, I am a 37 y/o African American male interested in helping a lesbian (couple) or straight female to have a child(ren). I would like to have some involvement with the child but how much or less is negotiable. I am healthy and financially secure. I am in a 12 yr committed relationship and would be there for the child if and when needed. I am open to all races. I am ready to meet and discuss all options and possibilities. Please email me at cdan2302@aol.com.

[Posted on 8 March 2008]

Lesbian Family Seeking a Sperm Donor w/ Co-Parenting Options

Hello. We are a loving & settled lesbian couple with one child, hoping to have another. We are both in our mid-thirties with stable careers and close, supportive families. I am an educator and my partner works for a large sales corporation.

We would like to have another child and insist on our child having the option of knowing who its dad is. The dad can have as little or as much interaction as he desires, but we feel it is important for a child to know where its identify comes from.

We do not wish to post pictures on the internet but would be happy to send them privately. We are both Caucasian females with dirty blonde hair and blue/ green eyes. I will be the birth mother and I am about 5'4, 110 lbs.

If you are interested please contact us at virginiawolfe1@hotmail.com.

[Posted on 28 December 2007]

A Straight Female Looking for a Gay Male to be a Biological Co-Parent for an Additional Child

I am a straight female who is 25 years old. I am a professional with above average intelligence and looks. I currently have a 4 year old daughter whose father is in the picture. I am looking to expand my family. I am African American and I am willing to be a co-parent to a man from any ethnic origin. Please feel free to contact me with any questions that you may have. Please contact me at dreamcatcher181@hotmail.com.

Thanks and have a good day...

[Posted on 6 June 2007]

Loving Lesbian Couple Looking for Donor

Hi, We are a loving lesbian couple, that feel we are missing a part from our family. We are just looking for a donor, no co-parent or part time parent. We are wanting to find a nice Caucasian male that would have no problem giving the donation and not have anything to do with the child that may come out of that. We are not looking for intercourse; we would prefer to just get the collection.

Now for a little about us. My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We recently purchased our first home within the last year and feel we are ready to make that next step into parenthood. We both have stable jobs and feel we would have no problem supporting a child. As I mentioned before we want to have a risk-free donation, because we are not looking for someone who wants to be a co-parent or anything of that nature. We do not want any child support or commitment in any way from the donor. We would want you to sign all the papers before the donation took place, so if a pregnancy was to happen we could get with our lawyer and try to get the adoption process started for my wife. I am a healthy young woman who has no medical problems and from the doctors perspective would have no problem carrying a child. We are not picky about our donors, as long as they are Caucasian and can provide clean, recent HIV & STD records and in conversation we would like to know of any family history that would suggest any birth defects, sickness, or illness. We would prefer a tall, white male, with green eyes and brown hair but that is nothing firm.

We want the child to look like my wife and as well as myself. We are also not against gay donors. If you would like any more information or are interested please feel free to email us at ajraines7984@comcast.net, and we would be more than happy to answer any questions. Also we are willing to travel to collect. We would also supply all of the collection supplies.

[Posted on 18 February 2007]

Stable GM Couple (12 years) Interested in Donating Sperm with No Strings Attached; Just Love

Two GM (Jim and Luis) interested in donating sperm to a single lesbian or lesbian couple. We strongly believe that for this to work, we have to be clear upfront that we have no rights whatsoever - if you want us to have any relationship at all with your children, we would have to earn it, and it would be entirely at your discretion.

We are both lawyers (we thought we would put the scary stuff first). Jim is a a law professor and Luis is an immigration lawyer. Luis is Puerto Rican and Jim is Jewish from Seattle, almost an oxymoron.

Florida is the only state to prevent ANY gay person from adopting, so we thought it would be nice to be part of parenting in this manner, even if it is a relatively small part of the process.

The best e-mail to reach us is at: wiletsj@nsu.law.nova.edu.

[Posted on 19 November 2006]

Male Professional Seeks Best Friend and Marriage Mate for Co-Parenting

Friends describe me as "A great catch". I'm flattered. Actually, I'm just blessed. God has blessed me with life, wonderful experiences, talents, varied interests, health and strength. For many years I have desired a traditional marriage and family, but having a same-sex attraction prevents that from happening. Thus, I am looking for a lesbian, bisexual or straight female who is interested in co-parenting. I am African American, 6', 195 lbs, 40 years old. I enjoy, sports, movies, theatre, and traveling. I love kids and can't wait to have a few. I am a caring, masculine, Christian, advanced-degreed professional who would make a wonderful husband (best friend) and father. I am looking and praying for what I call a Marriage Mate and Best Friend to co-parent a couple of children and raise family.

Basically, I am looking for a person in a similar situation in that she is gay but she too wants a traditional Christian marriage and home life for her children. She is professional, goal-oriented, and beautiful inside and out (height and weight proportionate with a great smile), wants kids, and has varied interests. African American or Hispanic/Latino ladies are a plus. Whether you are a lesbian, bisexual, or straight but you see a unique potential in and arrangement like this, let’s get to know one another and see what happens. I am simply asking that we both step out on faith towards a chance at a great partnership and raising some beautiful kids.

If you are serious, please email me at grangerellis@yahoo.com and type "Best friend for Co-parenting" in the subject line so that I can be prompt in my response.

[Posted on 13 July 2006]

Caring Gay Man Wants to be Part-Time Dad

Single Gay Male, 46, Caucasian, healthy and strong emotionally and spiritually, wants to donate parenthood to a happy, loving couple. I am an educated professional in human services and my interest is humanitarian. Sterling genes for you, amenable to your arrangements. My interest would be minimal involvement & acknowledgement as you raise the child with an increasing interest as he or she becomes a young adult, that kids need dads and family ties the most. Let me hear from you at learcdetriomphe@hotmail.com if you are in the Southeast USA.

[Posted on 8 May 2006]

Wanna Be Dads Looking for Help

Hi,

We are Ted and Tyler, we live in the greater Atlanta area. We are a happy couple in our eighth year together. We have been trying for several years to bring a child into our family with little success.

We have a great deal of love to share and would give a child a great home and life. We would very much like to have a child that biologically belongs to one of us but would be equally thrilled to give a loving home to an otherwise unwanted child or children from other biological parents. We are also willing to co-parent with a single woman or lesbian couple.

If you can help or we can help each other please e-mail us at tedandtyler@bellsouth.net.

[Updated on 13 April 2006]

We are a Happy FAMILY Looking for a New Addition, a DAD

We are a happy family looking for a Dad to have more children. We are a loving lesbian couple of 9yrs with a child. We were all given a clean bill of health and wellbeing across the board. We would like to have another baby and both of us will use the donor's gift. If you're ready to be a Dad, send Donor Contract, Donor Questionnaire, and proof of health with pictures and let's get started.

Love,
One Big Happy FAMILY
Email Me at love8free@aol.com.

[Posted on 25 March 2006]

GS seeking IP's ;-)

My name is Rebecca and I am in search of some much deserving IP's. Though I do not wish to discriminate on any basis I would prefer to help out a gay couple as I know they have a harder time finding a GS. I will however, be open to other types of arrangements ;-) I have two children, girls 8 + 10, both carried to full term and born vaginally with no complications. I am located in North Georgia. I am willing to carry multiples. I have a clerical job. I am willing to travel a bit to surrounding areas. I do not smoke, drink, or use drugs. I will be available for such things in April when my BC (Depo) wears off and can start BCP immediately to regulate and get things started. Fees are negotiable. I am 27 and lead an active lifestyle: I like hiking, camping, gardening, and belly dancing (originally used in middle eastern cultures to prepare the pelvic area and belly for child birth) I am single and my family and friends are completely supportive of this venture. please feel free to contact me at classiccitybecca@charter.net with any questions.

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I look forward to hearing from you.

[Posted on 8 March 2006]

Lesbian Couple Seeks Sperm Donor

Hello. We are a loving, good, educated lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. We have been together 10+ yrs and have a home and a lot of love to offer our baby. The one thing we lack is sperm... We have tried frozen and have really not had good luck with it. We want to find a willing donor for fresh sperm donations. We are willing to compensate. Technicalities can be discussed later.

We live in NE Georgia and are willing to drive up to a couple hours away to retrieve it. NO intercourse, No sexual acts on our part to retrieve. If you have a kind heart and are willing to share with us please email us at sharonep05@yahoo.com. We need to do this soon as I am on hormones to assist in pregnancy and can only remain on them for 6 months.

Requirements of donor... be disease free, Caucasian, not into drug use, healthy family line and known to be fertile. Photo included in email appreciated. How ever looks are not important. Legal forms provided for signature at time of donation protecting both parties. We do NOT want a part time daddy. We do NOT want any financial support. No strings attached. This is for us to finally have a family for us. We are willing on request to send a yearly picture and updates etc... but want NO involvement from the donor as a daddy. Please email us ASAP if you willing to help us achieve our dream.

Sharon

[Posted on 10 February 2006]

Loving Gay Couple Seeking TS

Hi,

My partner and I are actively searching for a traditional surrogate. We are an upper class gay couple and have been in a committed relationship for over 12 years. We own a successful business, own a home, and long for a child of our own. For many years we have discussed wanting a child and thought, when the time was right we would pursue it.

Our original plan was to have my sister be our surrogate when we were ready. My sister agreed as she thought that we would be wonderful parents having observed us and our love that we provide to her children (my neice and nephew). In an unfortunate turn of events, my sister had to undergo an emergency hysterectomy at only age 28. Now both of us at age 33, have decided to pursue our dream of having a child. We are ready to raise a wonderful child and have the support of our family and friends. We would have considered adoption, however we live in the only state that currently bans gay and lesbian adoption. We are looking for a female single or married, between the ages of 24 - 38. Must be in good health, be willing to be tested for STD's, have medical insurance to cover pregnancy, be a non-smoker, no drug or alcohol abuse, be willing for us to be involved with the pregnancy and birth, and be willing to give us full legal rights to the child.

If you feel you are a match for us and can help make our dream of being parents a reality we would love to meet you. Please contact us via email at: rjs2ii@yahoo.com.

Thank You,
Robert & George

[Posted on 7 December 2005]

Single Black Male Wants to be Single Parent or Willing to Co-Parent

29 year old single handsome black male in Atlanta. I am looking for a female who either wants to have a child and share the parenting or a female who wants a child but does not want to be solely responsible. I love children and currently prepared to take on the role as a co-parent or single parent. I have a supportive family so the child would be well taken care of. I want this to be a simple process. Please email me if you are interested. Open to race.

Email: d200030@aol.com

[Posted on 2 November 2005]

Exploring Options

I am a 41 year old gay white male looking to become a parent, not just a donor. I have thought of adoption, but want to explore other options.

A few statistics: I am 5'-11" and around 155 lbs. I have dark brown hair and blue eyes. I am an architect for a large commercial firm in Atlanta. In my free time, I enjoy traveling [especially to Europe], renovating my house, playing tennis and spending time with friends. I know all of this will change if/when I become a parent, but it also provides me with experiences to share.

If you would like to continue a conversation, please contact me at dwebatl@yahoo.com.

Thank you.

[Posted on 8 May 2005]