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From patrons of this site:

"We are happy to announce we are expecting our son to be born on/or before July 7th! Of course we are excited as can be. Thank you for helping to bring people together to make this happen."

"...thanks to you and all the hard work you do, I have received DOZENS of emails from potential donors and have found a situation that works perfectly. Thank you so much!!"

"I and a lot of people looking for co-parenting appreciate your work for our community."

"It's a great thing what you are offering people, the possibility of a family is the greatest gift ever."

"I have received many responses from my ad on Gay Family Options and think it may be time to remove it. I am in contract talks with a couple now and have more contacts if that does not work out. I wanted to say thanks for such a great site!"

"I just wanted to say thank you so much for having this website! What a wonderful thing you are doing for the community, and you're helping so many people to get in touch across the world."

"I want to say thank you for giving me the opportunity to be a parent. I found a nice female couple and I am now a father of a beautiful child and another one on the way. I think I can say that without this site, it would not have been possible. So I can say I have been successful and it is time to remove my ad from your site."

"Through your site I found the most wonderful women, and after just one attempt, our child will be born next summer. Everything has worked out beautifully."

"I would like to extend a sincere thank you to those that run the site. It is an invaluable service to many. Through the help of your site, we found (he found us) a wonderful man willing to help us start our family. We are expecting out first child together and could not be happier about it. Thank you so much!"

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Happy Gay Couple seeks Stable Female or Lesbian Couple for Co-Parenting

City: Dallas

Greetings and thank you for reading our ad. We are stable, committed gay couple in Dallas seeking a local healthy/secure single female or lesbian couple interested in exploring the opportunity of co-parenting together. It takes a village to raise a child and we think that a child could never have too much love in his/her life, so we would be interested in exploring this with the right female/couple.

We are 37 and 35 year old professionals, in a loving committed monogamous relationship for 7+ years, healthy, disease and drug free with lots of friends and family close by. We have talked about starting a family for years and are ready to take this to the next level. I am 5'8", 165 pounds, brown hair/brown eyes, part native American/German/French. I am member of Mensa, tri-lingual and have a master's degree. My spouse is 5'4", 130#, brown hair/brown eyes and of German/Irish ancestry with a college degree. We are a mature, loving and financially stable couple who spend our weekends with family or at our second home on the lake. We love to spend time with our niece and nephews, travel, laugh, play outdoors and entertain in our free time. We can be silly, serious and caring and we are each other's best friend and supporting pillar in life.

We are looking for a healthy, caring, mature and financially stable female or lesbian couple open to the idea of co-parenting. Age/race is not important so long as you can healthily conceive. We want to share the emotional, financial and parental obligations required, so only respond if you are in the DFW area and are willing to treat us as equal partners in this wonderful experience. It is important to us that you want us to play an active role in the child's life, as we certainly want a loving mother for our child too. We are seeking a woman/couple with values and beliefs like ours who is interested in first becoming friends and then starting this journey together.

If you would like to learn more, please send an email to twogaydads@gmail.com and tell us a bit about yourself and what you seek. We are happy to trade pics as well.

Thanks and God Bless :-)

Brent & Greg

[Posted on 3 July 2008]



New York City Want to be Dad

City: New York City

Hi my name is Frank. I am a Italian Irish American, tall with hazel eyes, 42 years old and very spiritually oriented. I am looking to be a visiting father coming over once a week or so if needed - truly a like long commitment right!! I'm lucky enough to have entered into a early retirement so I do have a lot to extra time to father a child. I am open to a friendly relationship with the lesbian couple as well. Me I'm am a lover of the arts opera, dance, Broadway, museum and galleries. I'm very interesting and well read and I would love to be your friend please email me at frankantone@yahoo.com for your first meeting.

[Posted on 28 June 2008]



Male Looking for Single Female or Couple for Co-Parenting Opportunity

City: Long Island

Hello! I am a 39 year old professional living in Long Island, New York with my partner of six years. I am 6.3, BR/BL, in good-shape, well educated and healthy. I do not smoke, do not do drugs, work-out regularly, and value a healthy lifestyle. I have a great career, good home, active lifestyle, great friends and family. My dream in life has always been to have a biological child.

I am seeking a single lesbian or lesbian couple who wants to co-parent a child. I truly believe that a co-parenting arrangement presents wonderful opportunity as long as the potential parents establish compatibility and a mutual understanding of each other's expectations. I am interested in being involved in the child’s (and mother/s) life, however I do realize the need to be open-minded and flexible regarding the legal rights should a couple be interested in adopting the child. I am a good guy with a real interest in embarking upon this exciting stage of my life……… please email if you are interested in speaking further, my email address is profclong@aol.com.

[Posted on 28 June 2008]



Looking for a Donor to Answer our Prayers.......

City: Chesapeake, OH

We are a loving lesbian couple who have been together 11 years. We are both from large families and would love to have a family of our own. Both of our families are excited and supportive that we are looking for our own bundle of joy! Any race is welcome, must be disease free (of course). Please answer our prayers and help us bring a child into a world where a loving and supportive family is waiting!

mcdondon23@yahoo.com

[Posted on 22 June 2008]



28 y/o White Gay Male Seeks Single Lesbian or Lesbian Couple for Co-Parent

City: South Florida

Hi! I am a 28 y/o single white gay male living in South Florida. I am looking for a single lesbian or lesbian couple anywhere in the US, but preferably near South Florida. I am open to many options, but I do have ONE request: I would like some form of involvement. The level of involvement is negotiable and we can discuss that in detail if we proceed. I would expect you to be the primary care-giver and sole provider. However, I would hope that you would be willing to share the joys and ask for help in the troubled times. I would also like to participate when appropriate and mutually agreed upon. I am not opposed to offering financial support when needed, but again, this must be discussed.

Here's a bit about me:

I am a 6'2"-tall white male with a slim/athletic body. I am mostly American but have British, Italian, and Spanish blood. My complexion is fair with light features: hazel eyes and light brown-to-dark blond hair. I take care of myself physically and mentally. People consider me a good looking guy.

Professionally, I work in education and am fortunate to have a great deal of experience with kids. My path through education has led me to psychology and understanding the human mind and its functions. Currently I am doctoral student in the field of neuro psychology. My goal upon graduation is to work in a hospital helping head trauma patients.

Although I am not ready to have a child of my own at this point in my life, I am willing to help dedicated and proven individuals. I am impressed by education, intellect, and success. Although the aforementioned may be subjective, my main interest in you is to give the child the best in every way possible.

If you have a desire for a detached sperm donor, I am not a good candidate for your needs. Although the child would be primarily your responsibility, I would like to play some part. My ultimate goal would be a symbiotic relationship with hopes that you may provide me with a child in the next two to four years. Just as I expect to play a role with your child, I would want you to be a part of my child's life too.

Although these ideas are neither conventional nor understood by the dominant culture, they are options that allow us to be parents and have families of our own. Family is very important to me, regardless of my sexual orientation. We will never have the "American Dream" as defined by heterosexual America, but we can create our own American Dream, as long as it is done the right way with LOVE being the main ingredient.

Race is not an issue, but I do prefer ages 25 - 35.

I look forward to responses.

doctorfield@gmail.com

[Posted on 21 June 2008]



Seeking Hispanic Sperm and/or Father!

City: Brooklyn

Hi,

We are lesbians in a loving and committed relationship. Aside from our sexuality, we are a very traditional family. Family is very important to us! We are going to California to get married in August, and we can't wait to have kids. More than anything, we want to be moms!

We are loving, kind, and affectionate people. We have a lot of fun. We spend a lot of time outside, and with our family and friends. We both work in public schools, and have great schedules (including summers off) to be very active parents. We are planning a strong family with a lot of love and support from our family and friends. We are very excited about little league, music lessons, holidays, family outings and trips, and everything a kid could want. Plus, we both have master's degrees in education! So very briefly...

My name is Sarah, I'm 30 years old. I am a special education teacher. My father is French Canadian, my mother is Irish. I have lived all over the country, but have settled in Brooklyn. I love the beach, reading, outdoors, and travel.

My partner's name is Daisy, she is 33 years old. She is a high school guidance counselor. Her mother is Irish, her father is Puerto Rican. She feels a strong connection to her Puerto Rican roots. Daisy is from Brooklyn and has lived here her whole life. She enjoys sports and music.

We envision having at least two children; each of us would like to try to conceive at least once. As Daisy strongly identifies as Hispanic, we would like to share that with our children and therefore prefer a Hispanic father. Also, we would love for our children to have the same father. If you would like involvement in the child's life, that even better. But of course, in that case we would need to get to know you first. We are not looking for any financial contributions or support. You would have to be willing to sign over your parental rights, so we could have a second parent adoption.

If you are interested, please contact me! My e-mail is oceanrambler1978@hotmail.com. You would be a blessing!

Thanks,
Sarah & Daisy

[Posted on 17 June 2008]



Couple Looking for Known Donor

City: Phoenix

My partner and I are in a loving committed relationship, we have been together for three years and have decided it is the perfect time to add a baby to our life! We are looking for a healthy, intelligent, artistic man with blond or brown hair, blue eyes and somewhat tall, though we are flexible with this. We would like for the baby to have an 'uncle' type relationship with the donor or no further contact if that's what you would prefer. It would be best for the donor to be local so that we would have better availability during my fertile time but if you are willing to travel that would be fine as well. Please email me at nine_firefly@hotmail.com with any questions you would like to ask me so that we can begin on this journey!

[Posted on 17 June 2008]



Can You Make My Dream Come True

City: Los Angeles

I am an educated and professional African American Male in his late 30's who is looking for a co-parent or a surrogate to help me become a father. I will like to have at least two children with the same person. If it is a co-parent situation I would want to have joint legal and physical custody of the child. If it is a surrogate situation, I have no problem with the child knowing his or her mother. I have tried the traditional route, but have not found that suitable "lady" to marry and I want to become a father while I'm young enough to have the possibility of seeing any grandchildren my child/children might have.

I am very serious about becoming a father and I would like to discuss the situation with you as soon as possible. Race and sexuality is not an issue with me. I am a very open minded person and I hope you are also.

Currently on the west coast, but hope to relocate to the east coast real soon.

I can be contacted via email at livingjay@yahoo.com.

Thanks.

[Posted on 14 June 2008]



Attractive and Confident USC Grad Seeks Stable Male Couple for Surrogacy/Co-Parenthood

City: Las Vegas

Hello,

My name is Jessica. I am 26, straight, and I have not been pregnant before. I graduated USC in 2004 and majored in Gender Studies. Classes in evolutionary biology, politics, feminism, and culture influenced my beliefs on tradition and societal expectations. In this day, I think that two dads and a mom [on the side] is better than just one of each, especially if that mom is me. Moreover, in my experience homosexuals are more conscious of others needs and more likely to have similar socio-political views as me. Reproductive options offer better control over the genetics and stability of a child and I intend on using these options to give my children the best life I can help enable. I do not equate money with quality of life. However, I need to know that this expensive process will not heavily affect the couple's net worth and finances will not be an issue.

Though I intentionally planned and used the option to finance a nonprofit for needy women in San Diego, here and now, I want to disclose that I became a stripper out of college. My relocation to Vegas moved me into business and I currently own an exotic car rental company. However, I was reminded that scheduled work is very hard for me due to my only heath issue which is severe insomnia. Honestly, I am happy to be out of the office and back to dancing. I will not be able to work at all without being able to take my sleep medications so unless a miracle happens with the company, my few bills will need to be paid.

Moreover, I need to know that the fathers will help do whatever I need so that I can go back to my natural lifestyle after recovery. In return, I will be very flexible on all the different options for the pregnancy and parenting and helpful to minimize any risks that the fathers might have. I would be happy to discuss and explain these issues in detail. Feel free to email me at jessicakensinger@yahoo.com. I strongly prefer Las Vegas but might consider Southern California if the perfect couple is there. I don't consider this a transaction, but a major life decision (like marriage); I will wait for the perfect couple.

Sincerely,
Jessica

[Posted on 13 June 2008]



Lesbians Looking For Donor/Uncle

City: Los Angeles/NYC

I am an African American lesbian woman with a partner looking for an African American or mixed race donor. Gay/Straight/Bi matters not. I'm more concerned with your heart and your brain. Do you love your mom? Do you like pets? Are you tolerant? Patient? If it matters, I have a couple of degrees and we earn a nice living. I'm a little overweight, not obese... very pretty and very feminine. I have lots of pics, yours for the asking.

Both of us had our dads in our lives and would love to have the same for our children. You can be involved as much or as little as you'd like. I am fine with an 'uncle' situation as well. I currently live in Los Angeles with plans to relocate to the East Coast soon. Travel is no problem.

We are spiritual, but not very religious. My beliefs lean toward Buddhist. I was raised in a very strict upper middle class household, but I turned out artsy and bohemian-ish nonetheless. My sweetheart's family was a little more open-minded than mine and she turned out lovely as well. She's quiet and a little shy but very funny when you get to know her. I'm the social butterfly, friendly and always smiling. We hope to instill love, tolerance and grace and well as a love for literature, music and the arts.

If we sound interesting, email me and we'll discuss the details! I'd like to get started ASAP.

carolsdaughter30@gmail.com

[Posted on 12 June 2008]



Single Man in Seattle Seeking Female Co-Parent

City: Seattle

I'm a 35-year-old white male and would like to co-parent a child with a woman. I'm stable, in good physical health, financially responsible, and have a solid career here in Seattle.

I would plan to share joint legal and physical custody with the child's mother, as well as financial responsibility for our child. Please send me an email to greenlake08@hotmail.com if you'd like to discuss.

[Posted on 10 June 2008]



Single Guy Wants to be a Dad

City: Plantation, FL

I'm a 39 year old, single, professional African American man in the south Florida area, seeking a single female co-parent. I'm 5'8" and 165 lbs, very clean, healthy genes, never did any drugs, non-smoker/non-drinker, and don't have any STDs. Can produce recent lab test to prove it, and you should be able to do so as well. I'm also athletic and in very good shape. I'm financially stable, well-adjusted, and mentally prepared to do this, but haven't yet met the right woman. If you don't want parental rights I'm fine with that. If you want to be a co-parent, I'm fine with that, too. I'm perfectly capable of raising a child on my own, but I'd be more inclined to do this with a woman who wants to be a mother. I identify as bisexual, and I'm open to doing this with a woman of any sexual orientation via AI.

I want to be actively involved in our child's life because I envision myself more as a father than as an uncle or just a sperm donor. I'm looking for a woman who's beautiful inside and out, and I want this to be an awesome experience for all three of us. She should be a clean, healthy, stable, professional woman who has an active lifestyle, preferably 20s to mid 30s. She can be Black or White, doesn't really matter to me. In fact, I'm open to the idea of raising a bi-cultural/bi-racial child. I'm a very social person who was raised in a very large family, and I have great relationships with my family and extended family. I helped raise many nieces and nephews, and I would love nothing more than to have my own biological child.

Location isn't all that important to me, as long as its within the US. I wouldn't describe myself as 'picky' but I would want to get to know about the person I'm doing this with, and I expect that she would want to know things about me as well. If you feel we'd be great co-parents then send me some information about yourself. A photo would also be nice. Serious replies only. mercedesboy40@gmail.com.

[Posted on 6 June 2008]



A Single-Female Seeking a Sperm Donor or Co-Parent

City: Montreal, Quebec

I am a single female (Asian, non-lesbian) and seeking a sperm donor or co-parent.

For more information, you can contact me at: margaret_j7@hotmail.com. I look forward to hearing from you.

[Posted on 3 June 2008]



Happily Single Woman Looking for Donor in Montreal

City: Montreal

I am a happily single, 34 year old woman who is looking for a donor to fulfill my desire to be a mom. I've been wanting children for years and have decided that now is the right time.

I am young at heart and I adore my work of owning a childcare business so much that I keep wishing for the day that one of the little ones won't go home with someone else.

Ideally, I would prefer someone with a similar ethnic background. My family is from the Netherlands and I am the stereotypical, tall, blonde hair, blue eyed girl. I am very open to considering other backgrounds if I feel that it's the right donor. To have a child to love and hold surpasses anything.

Looking forward to hearing from you!
E-mail me at: prosperosdaughter@sympatico.ca

[Posted on 3 June 2008]



Co-parenting / Family

City: London

Hi,

I am a Chinese gay man in London. I am 33, 5'8", fit and good looking. I am well-educated, a professional working in the finance industry, have my own home, and are financially independent. I am looking for a straight/lesbian female of any race to co-parent a child, or to have a family together. I am hoping that we can be good friends, giving each other the warmth and care of having a family, although I am completely flexible in the practical arrangement. I grew up with the care and attention of my parents, and I am hoping that if one day I have a child, I will be able to give it the care and love of both parents.

I am a sincere person, and would like to think of myself as caring, understanding and loving. Please feel free to get in touch at i.seek.family@googlemail.com, if you are interested, or just want to know more about myself, or even just to say hi. Thank you...

[Posted on 2 June 2008]



Artistic Educated Woman Looking to Co-Parent with Smart Healthy Man

City: New York

Hello,

I am a 39 yr old artistic fertile female (been tested) looking to conceive. Rather than just get a sperm donor, I would prefer to share this experience with a good loving person who values children as much as I do.

My story, I am straight woman, but the man I was with for seven years decided he does not want children, so that ended, knowing that a family is important to me I decided to look for alternative ways to create a family.

I had the world's greatest mom and I have always wanted to be a mother.

I am 5' 7" , red hair, blue eyes, fair skin and very healthy. I am very into healthy food, I do not drink, smoke or do drugs. I work out regularly. I am educated up to graduate level and I am a successful creative professional.

What I would want is a co-parenting situation, in the beginning I guess I would need to be me more (breast feeding) but as the child grows I would hope the dad would be interested in spending time and having the child for visits. I would hope that we would all be friends a "chosen" family. Sort of like being divorced without the pain part..

Financially I have insurance and make a good living but would want to share costs eventually for day care, education....we could figure that out.

Please write me if you are interested.
tracymcgow@aol.com

[Posted on 31 May 2008]



Gay Couple Dreaming of Becoming Fathers...

City: San Francisco

We have been together for almost 2 years now, but having known each other over 10 years. Both are successful in our careers, Jack 39 and myself (Kim) 45. Our ethnic backgrounds are European (Swedish, German, Irish). I have worked in HealthCare for 25 years now and Jack is a Hair Colorist Extraordinaire for over 10 years.

We are wanting to adopt or looking for a surrogate mother.  Committed to showing our child how great life is and to make every day a day worth living.

Both are very healthy, no medical problems or history of. Have a fantastic extended family around this country. We are both very stable and have a home in San Francisco. I have been working on adopting since 2004. We have so much to offer and would be grateful to be able to share that with a child.

Thank You for checking us out.

kparker13@aol.com

[Posted on 30 May 2008]



Good Hearted, Family Oriented Male Seeking Female Who Shares Dream to Co-parent

City: Fairfield, CT

Hello! I am a single, professional, well educated and healthy male living in Connecticut/New York City suburbs. My dream in life is to have a biological child. Due to my life circumstances and busy work schedule, it would be impossible for me to raise a child as a single parent. I have a terrific career and am financially secure, however the one void in my life is not having a child.

I come from a loving family and have often been told I would be such a great dad. I am seeking a female who wants to co-parent a child. I am seeking a woman who is also professional/educated/financially secure and just like me cannot raise a child by herself. I would want us to be equally involved in raising the child and be dedicated to equally sharing the responsibilities. I am seeking a woman who is emotionally stable, kind and a generally good hearted person like myself. I am open to communicating with a woman from anywhere in the United States who shares in this lifelong dream to have a biological child. I hope to find a woman who understands the importance that the child have both parents equally involved in his/her life.

Please feel free to email me if you have an interest in communicating further. My email address is : wanting2coparent@sbcglobal.net.

[Posted on 29 May 2008]



Dad To Be

City: Los Angeles

Greetings. I have this dream to be a dad, willing and available father here in the Los Angeles area,  soon in Palmdales/Lancaster (new house).

A bit about myself: 46 years old, disease-free, active, healthy. Blue eyes/blond shaved head, small goatee, and fit muscular.

I am very interested in a parenting relationship and being the father on the birth certificate. I would like to be involved as a father in the life of the kids, everyday. If you are a Caucasian woman, nicely fit and healthy, it would be more then a pleasure to discuss this with you.

Looking forward to hear from you.

labergebnt@aol.com


[Posted on 28 May 2008]



Seeking Man to Donate Sperm for Known Donor or Uncle-Type Situation

City: Boston

Hi. I am a 39 year old lesbian seeking to have a child. I have a fantastic career and I love my life. But something is missing and I long to be a mommy. I come from a wonderful family and I have oodles of love to give my child. I am financially stable, emotionally secure, and eager to embark on this phase of my life.

I am seeking a donor who wants to be involved in my child's life by being part of his/her emotional and spiritual support system. I am not looking for someone to be involved legally or financially. I want my child to have the opportunity to develop a positive and healthy relationship with his/her donor/dad. I believe it is ideal for children to be able to know where they come from. If I were to have a child with anonymous sperm from a sperm bank, that child would not have the opportunity to grow up knowing his/her donor/dad. And naturally, I want to provide what is best for my child. I am trying Gay Family Options after some of my gay male friends indicated that they aren’t ready to take on the responsibility of being a donor/dad.

I currently live in Boston and work at a large hospital/university. I have a PhD. I consider California my home and would love to return there one day. I haven’t moved back because my career has really taken off here in Boston. I don’t have a preference for where you (the donor) currently live. I am willing to surmount geographical barriers for the right situation. Looking forward to hearing from you. I can be reached at hlc1561@gmail.com.

[Posted on 26 May 2008]



Hoping to father Two Children - US or Europe

City: NEW YORK / NARBONNE

Seeking to Father Two Children / De'sireux de devenir p`ere de deux enfants (trad.en bas).

ME:

6ft., brownish hair [was blond color when young - see pics - which show me in mid-20's - current ones available when you e-mail]; greenish [were once blue] eyes, 180lbs, 54 [act lot younger - never properly matured], bi/gay, Oxford graduate [I'm of Celtic parentage], usual 'arty' interests - cinema / theatre / galleries / travel, Mediterranean food and wines [but non-smoker]; not really sporty type but enjoy some mountain-biking (and always cycle/walk when in NYC); favourite novelists Iris Murdoch / early (later stuff too formulaic) Patricia Cornwell / Jose’ Saramago; musical preferences range from Monteverdi to Marc Almond and Philip Glass. Dry sense of humour. Currently on a kind of Sabbatical (previously worked in international organizations in legal advice / management fields). Have a small place in the South of France which would be good for summer holidays when the children are older. Currently living in the S. of France with occasional visits to US. Totally healthy. Not in a relationship.

YOU:

Positive outlook; intelligent; at least University education; probably working in some sort of creative field, financially secure; could be single or in a relationship, but welcoming of my involvement in the children's upbringing and also definitely wanting at least two children [I have a view that children should grow up with at least one brother or sister.] You probably live either East or West Coast, or maybe Europe. You are open minded enough not to mind the idea of an 'older' father ( you might even see the advantages - there are some...)

The Idea:

you would be the custodial parent of the children but I would get to visit for at least a couple of months of the year and as they get older the children would come to stay with me for roughly half of school vacations [assuming they wanted to]. In other words a ‘friendly divorce’ type of arrangement. I would make sure they had a good time and you would get a rest from constant parenting. I would want a say in their education - I would especially want them to get a good musical and bilingual education from an early age. Obviously situations can change as time goes on and children's inclinations count for a lot but these are my broad-brush ideas. People say I relate well to children. Quite a few friends (seeing me with their children) have said 'you would make a good father'. It would be crucial that you and I would get on well together even though we didn't want to live together / be around one another for more than a couple of months of the year. Actual insemination would be with syringe (in case you were worried....).

Please e-mail me if you are at all interested to discuss this further, in complete confidence that I will exercise [and expect] total discretion and total confidentiality around these exchanges. Please write FULLY ie with as much details about yourself and your 'project' as you read here about me and mine. Pix (to exchange) and full details about you / your ideas essential. [Thanks for reading so far. Wishing only good things to all of us aching to become parents......] RIV.

E-mail: jonblane@hotmail.com.

[Ad in French follows]:

Sujet: Mec ado [54 ans] recherche copine pour projet de coparentalite':

Mec ado [54 ans],franco-britannique, [qui veut e'ventuellement s'installer dans le Languedoc ] recherche copine/s pour projet de coparentalité de deux enfants dans relation genre peut-être ‘divorce amicale’.

Bonjour à toutes et à tous. Ou commencer ?? Je nourris depuis trop longtemps ce grand désir de devenir et être père de deux enfants [deux parce-que je pense que l’enfant a besoin d’un[e] petit[e] frère ou sœur pour grandir avec]. J’ai commencé à mettre des annonces il y a longtemps mais avec le travail [juriste / administrateur] je n’ai pas suivi le ‘projet’ avec assez d’assiduité. Maintenant je viens de quitter le travail pendant un ou deux ans ‘sabbatiques’ donc plus d’excuses / auto-exculpation….

Je suppose que – donné la mythique baguette magique - je recherche une femme genre ‘Annie Hall’ ?? – intello, sérieuse mais avec grand sens de l’humour, féminine, établie dans sa profession libérale - raisonnablement aisée point de vue finances, aimant les arts, le voyage, parlant plusieurs langues [ou du moins l’anglais – je voudrais que les enfants bénéficient d’une éducation bilangue si possible] et bien sûr beaucoup plus jeune que moi [mais ne voyant pas de problème dans la différence d’âge] ! [Prof de fac ? avocate ? cadre sup dans organisation internationale ?] Et avec résidence actuelle ou projetée pour l’avenir dans le Languedoc ou ailleurs dans le midi. [Ce dernier n'est gu`ere obligatoire - on parle de l'ide'ale.....]

Mes idées de comment cela pourrait marcher sont développées sur

http://www.gayfamilyoptions.org/

- veuillez consulter. En bref je n’envisage pas de garde alternée - plutôt je passerais du temps avec nos enfants / vous selon notre accord et leurs désirs, et dans l’avenir [ ?après l’âge de disons 7 ans ?] ils viendraient passer du temps avec moi, y compris la moitié des vacances scolaires….. Enfin ce sont des idées de base qui devraient se modifier le long du long projet et selon les circonstances futures qui ne sont pas toujours prévoyables………Mais voilà d’où je commence…….- on doit commencer quelque part……

Si mes idées vous disent quelque chose et vous vous intéressez à en discuter veuillez svp m’envoyer un courriel [à jonblane@hotmail.com ] plein d’infos sur vous / votre projet. Et des photos [ bien su^r à s’échanger]. S’il vous plaît pas de réponses de 5 lignes. Discrétion totale assurée assurée / attendue……. Merci d’avance………Et bonne chance à toutes / tous ....



[Posted on 25 May 2008]



Another Member to Our Family

City: Lansing Area

Loving lesbian family with a 4 year old little girl that would LOVE to be a big sister. Looking for a man 25-40 years of age, 5'5" or taller, Caucasian, Hispanic, or Japanese ethnicity, smoke-free, musical talent preferred, in good physical health with no involvement in the child's life. Please email at henley.wild@yahoo.com if interested. Thank you.

[Posted on 23 May 2008]




Male Wanting to Co-Parent with a Female Couple/Single Female

City: London

I am a single 31 year old gay British Pakistani. 5'6", fit, healthy and good looking. Degree educated professional with my own home. I am widely travelled and have a good network of friends and family around me, and am fortunate enough to be fulfilled in most areas of my life. I am looking for a straight or gay woman to co-parent with.

Starting a family is important to me and I would be looking to build a safe, nurturing and balanced environment to bring a new person into the world. I strongly feel that both parents should be integrated into the child’s life. I am a very flexible person, and am looking for a situation where we can create common goals together.

I am willing to undertake the necessary health checks. Please get in touch with me at naimnow@hotmail.com for more in information and photographs.

[Posted on 20 May 2008]



Me at age 18

Sperm Donor: Older, Scientist, Successful Entrepreneur, Widower

City: Austin, TX

I am loving, tall, blue-eyed, trim & fit, healthy, very intelligent, financially successful, a widower.   I have been tested disease free and healthy sperm. I donated successfully to 3 women and expect to donate until I am successful 1 or perhaps 2 more times. The most recent time was 2 weeks ago, May 2008; The woman successfully inseminated herself at home with a syringe, (no catheter). You may ask me what I think works if you e-mail me.

I will donate to a woman who is intelligent and professional, not over weight and ready to be a devoted mother. My involvement, if any, is 100% up to you, but I would like to provide help with first year expenses, a college scholarship and an inheritance. If you live far from Austin, I can ship, at my expense, a fresh donation overnight, but I expect us to meet once in person first. Trade photos. (The posted photo is me at age 18.)

E-mail: topgenes@gmail.com

[Posted on 18 May 2008]




Known Sperm Donor or Co-Parenting

City: San Diego

Hi,

My name is Louis. I am Lao/Chinese, 32 years old, 5'8", 145lbs, black hair, bi male. I went to Oberlin College for my undergraduate degree and UCSD for a Masters in Biomedical Sciences. I am currently a regional Account Manager for a Biotech company.

I have always wanted to be a father and would like to do so before I get older. I am a responsible, financially stable professional. I would like to be an active co-parent for the child but open to being a known sperm donor and play a role as an uncle.

If you would like to discuss more and take some time to get to know each other, please feel free to contact me at Dad2Be32@gmail.com.

[Posted on 13 May 2008]



Fun, Down to Earth Lesbian Couple Looking for Sperm Donor - Possible Uncle Figure or Co-Parent For the Right Man or Couple

City: Bloomington, Indiana

Hello! My Partner and I have been together for 9 great years. We desperately want to share our joy and excitement about life with children. Ideally we want to have all legal rights, but are very open to an uncle or co-parent role for the right man or couple. Our thought are, how could it possibly be detrimental to a child to have more adults that love him/her.

Our parenting style - Do what works!

Our reason for wanting kids - We love kids, and we want to give them a chance to grow up free from any judgment about who they are, or what life is right for them.

Our goal with our kids - Inspire and Encourage their greatest talents and strongest passions.

The most important quality in a donor - A good heart!

If you are interested, please email us at 2futuremoms@gmail.com. We look forward to hearing from you :)

[Posted on 9 May 2008]







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