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Sperm Donor, 36 Available - Paternal Rights Not Wanted

I am a healthy 36 year-old male residing in New England who is open to donating sperm to an individual or couple. I am not seeking any parental rights, and desire to keep my greater privacy intact. Recipient takes full responsibility of the child. I have helped to produce one child thus far, and would enjoy the opportunity to do it again. I'd prefer the recipient be open to natural method; I have found at-home artificial insemination to be tedious and ineffective. I realize this arrangement will not be for everyone, but I figured I would be completely up-front.

Vital Information General Location: NH Age: 36 Type: Caucasian Height: 6’ Weight: 164 Hair color: Brown Eye color: Hazel Skin: Fair Build: Slender / Athletic Overall health: Excellent Profession: Design Education High School: Completed College Major: Bachelor of Science in Photography and Design

Personality

I enjoy living simply and elegantly. Though I am friendly and work well with others, I tend to be a private person. Rather than being the center of attention, I prefer to engage in quiet, meaningful conversation. To my family and select friends I am loving and very loyal. I enjoy the outdoors and the solitude it brings. In society I like fine dinning, upscale nightlife, evening walks, good music and good books.

Donor Motivation

My motivation is to procreate, foremost. Though I do not intend on raising children myself, I nonetheless contain the natural propensity every living thing has to reproduce itself. If I can do so and in turn help someone’s dream of having a child of their own become a reality, I consider this a healthy symbiosis.

Contact me at m.adrian@comcast.net.

[Posted on 4 April 2008]

Gay Married Couple Seeking Lesbian Donor

My partner and I of 7 years are looking for a lesbian single/couple to help us in starting a family. We were legally married last year, and have been thinking more and more of starting a family.

In exchange, we would like to be able to help someone else out by giving our sperm to you to help in starting a family of your own.

We both are looking for full parent rights, with the option of you having visitation right for party's and holidays at your choice.

I would be the donor. I am 28, Irish, med brown hair, blue eyes, 6'1 220 (football build).

We are both financially stable. We having a warm and loving home to welcome this new baby.

Please e-mail me at dg5180@aol.com if you are interested or know of anybody that is.

[Posted on 25 November 2007]

Looking for that Perfect Woman to Co-Parent with? City: Boston Well, I'm looking for the perfect male co-parent. Are you a parenting partner who: Wants to be an engaged parent Would be a loving father Lives in Boston area Is physically & mentally healthy Has good relationships with family & friends Is financially secure If you are a man with the unique potential for an arrangement like this, let's get to know one another and see what happens...

About me...Truly a New Englander, I grew up in Connecticut, went to school in Vermont and have lived in Brookline, MA since 1998. I am 32 years old 5'3", 135 lbs, lesbian, long brown hair, hazel eyes and healthy in every way. I enjoy skiing, sailing, tennis, cooking, traveling and my dog Millie.

If interested please email me at seekingafather@comcast.net.

[Posted on 30 October 2007]

Married Gay Male Couple Seeks Single or Lesbian Couple Co-Parent(s) City: Concord We are a gay male couple that has been together 14 years and legally married for 3 years. We are both college educated. Jerry works in information technology and I work in health care. We both have strong family ties and strong friendships. We are seeking a woman or lesbian couple who would like to form a co-parenting relationship with us, and share the rights and responsibilities. We look for someone who is emotionally and financially stable, physically fit and proportionate, and able to handle the responsibilities involved in co-parenting a child. We would need to connect on many levels in order to successfully raise a child. I would be the one who would be the biological father. I am 38 years old, very youthful, good looking, blonde hair, blue eyes, athletic build, 5'8, and in excellent health with no family history of health issues. If you would like to talk more about the idea of co-parenting with us, please send me an email at steve_parker@comcast.net. [Posted on 22 May 2007]

Single Woman Seeks Male Co-parent

Are you considering nontraditional fatherhood? I'm a well-educated, heterosexual woman (age 40) seeking a single man or male couple to have a child with, and to share parenting rights and responsibilities.

Together we would create a family based on trust, respect, compatible values and beliefs, and a similar parenting philosophy. I believe a platonic co-parenting relationship has the greatest chance of success if the partners are responsible, considerate, patient, flexible, exceptional communicators, and fully committed to raising a child together. A sense of humor couldn't hurt either!

I'm looking for a parenting partner who:

• *is a gay or straight single man (or a male couple in a stable, long-term relationship)
• *would be a loving father and deeply engaged in parenting
• *would be interested in roughly equal sharing of parenting duties and financial responsibilities
• *is physically and mentally healthy
• *is kind, intelligent, and has strong and healthy relationships with friends, partners, and/or family.
• *is financially secure

Ideally, I'd like to find someone who would become a good friend, as well as a co-parent. The priority, though, would be for us to raise a happy, healthy child.

Here's a bit about me:

• *I'm 5'3, petite, youthful, and have dark blonde hair and blue eyes.
• *I'm in excellent health.
• *I live in Arlington, MA. I plan to buy a condo this year and ideally would like to live near my parenting partner.
• *I have an undergraduate degree from Rice University and a master's degree from Boston University. I work full-time as a public health professional.
• *I'm a lifelong Democrat and am deeply concerned about the Iraq war, global warming, and the unfathomable callousness of the Bush Administration.
• *I enjoy cooking, digital photography, and hiking, among other things.
• *I'm very close to my family, although we are geographically far apart.

If you think you might be interested in co-parenting, please email me at jjsj7201@gmail.com and we can talk more.

[Posted on 14 March 2007]

Committed Lesbian Couple Seeks Sperm Donor

We are a lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. We are both well educated, stable, and financially secure. We have been together for 6 years. We desperately want a child. Unfortunately, we can not make one on our own. So we would like to ask you for your help.

Our sperm donor would be willing to sign away all rights. Must be drug and disease free. Please respond ASAP. We are anxious to get the process started.

Willing to generously compensate.

More information can and will be provided once we open the lines of communication. Please respond to baby4us143@hotmail.com.

Please consider us. We will make great parents and provide a loving home.

[Posted on 4 February 2007]

Healthy Caucasian Sperm Donor, 36

I am open to donating sperm anonymously to a select couple in the New England area.

I am a single, perfectly healthy, attractive and self-employed thirty-six year old Caucasian male. Per my lifestyle choices, I have no interest in parenting children, but would be open to contributing sperm to a couple who would love to have a child of their own. I neither seek nor desire paternal rights; my intent is simply to contribute genetically.

Photo is attached. Further details are available upon request. Serious queries only, please!

[Posted on 10 January 2007]

Father Wanted: Co-Parent, Uncle or Donor

Thirty-something married lesbian couple would like to have a baby. Your involvement is negotiable. We are both Caucasian but open to a child of any race. We live in Eastern Massachusetts and plan to stay in this area because Kari works as a biochemist in Andover. Naomi is self-employed as a massage therapist and gay wedding planner. We are both college educated, creative, physically and mentally healthy. Please email us and check out our myspace pages to learn more about us.

greenpaisley27@hotmail.com

http://www.myspace.com/eyeamviolet

http://profile.myspace.com/boidrummer2

[Posted on 8 January 2007]

EGG DONOR. EXPERIENCED!!!!

My name is Linda and I am an experienced TS and now I would like to help as an EGG DONOR. I have very good quality eggs. I am a 35 year old lesbian in a long term relationship. I know how hard it is to have children in this lifestyle. I feel that everyone should experience having children if they get the chance. I have had three kids of which of which two are mine and the third is a 1 1/2 year old girl that I carried as a surrogate child. I am very close with the parents.

I am very firm about my requests. I would like everything to be put into the paperwork. I want photos every month for the first year and then once a year until the child is eighteen. I am fine with the child meeting me if that is requested. We are to exchange any address changes until the child reaches the age of eighteen. Other than that I will not require any contact unless the parents initiate. I require a fee of $5000.00 as I am experienced. I have my own lawyer and doctors. I have all of my medical paperwork and psych evaluation. I also have medical insurance. I will also require medical, travel and lawyer expenses that are required. You can contact me at tobey33@gay.com.

[Posted on 12 October 2006]

Looking to Start a Family

It is time to settle into a long time dream. I have accomplished some life time dreams, but my heart yearns for little feet and mouths. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man who is the father of 4 grown children and one infant granddaughter. I am looking for a lesbian couple who are at the same point in life. I am 44 and Steven is 41. I would like a mother who is goal oriented, independent, college educated and a professional. My email is newyearboys@adelphia.net.

[Posted on 22 September 2006]

Donations to Help Married Gay Couple to Start a Family (Surrogacy).. HELP!!

My name is Troy and I have been looking for a local surrogate for quite some time. I was at work combing the Internet and ran across an ad, I live in MA and finally found a surrogate that lives close and its perfect to help us start our family. I have been in a committed relationship for the past 5 years and we already have a 9 year old boy from my partner's previous marriage. I'm 35 and had begun getting a little discouraged thinking that it may never happen. I had been working hard to provide a thriving home for my partner and his child. Financially, there were some tough times while I was the main support for my family. This is in addition to a very messy custody battle that was all about not wanting a child to be raised in a gay environment rather than what was in the child's best interest. I had to put aside my need to have a child while my family stuggled with those issues. Thankfully, with that behind us and our family intact I have begun to hope again to have a child.

I am hoping for a few generous souls to help me complete my dream of having a child. The total cost for the surrogate is 25,000. Any amount is welcome and appreciated. I have always tried to help others where I could and am not great at asking for help, but this is too important and well worth the risk. Each and every donation will be met with an appreciative letter and hopefully baby pictures on what you help create. Even if you don't donate I appreciate that you took the time out to read this far. Any and all donations can be made to our paypal account (ocnstevie@aol.com).

Thank you in advance for your time and attention.

Troy

[Posted on 21 November 2005]

Adoptive Parents-To-Be Wanted

Are you a member of a same-sex couple?

Are you preparing to adopt for the first time? If so, we need your help!

Participants are needed for a long-overdue study of the transition to adoptive parenthood among same-sex couples. You will be interviewed before and after the adoption to find out your experiences during this important life transition.

For more information, please contact:
Abbie Goldberg, Ph.D.
Department of Psychology. Clark University
Phone: 508-793-7289. Email: agoldberg@clarku.edu.

[Posted on 17 September 2005]

Looking for Gay Male Sperm Donor / Co-Parent

I am a 36 year old well educated (Yale, Harvard, MIT), completely healthy, open-minded, liberal, funny, warm, intelligent gay female, 5 foot three inches tall, 115 lbs, with hazel eyes and brown long hair, professional, grounded, emotionally and financially stable who is looking for a gay male to have a kid or kids with. My priorities are to find someone who is well educated, values education, likes kids and wants to be a parent, is medically healthy, is emotionally and financially secure. Involvement in the child's life is negotiable. Gay male couples welcome. If this sounds like it may interest you please email me at lspelio@yahoo.com and we can talk some more.

Liz

[Posted on 6 March 2005]

Male Looking for a Surrogate Mother

Hi. I am a 51 year old male and at this age I am still single. I have been a caregiver for both parents and grandparents. They have all passed on but, here I am alone and without children. I am an avid lover of kids and I have been a foster parent, and I am tutoring kids also. I am finishing my Master's in Education and hope to teach soon. I am a religious person and serve on the the vestry of my church, I also have been a Sunday School teacher to pre k and K children, and also to jr. high kids. I am also a chalice bearer, usher, lay Eucharistic minister and acolyte.

My life is busy except when I come home there are no kids. I do have 4 lovely dogs all whom I rescued, but I didn't expect to have 4 at once!! They are great. I loved being a foster parent and hopefully will adopt an older child before the year is out. Deep down in my heart I want a child to have some of my genes. I am not getting any younger, but take after my Father who had his last child at 48. He was younger than most fathers in their 30's. I am fortunate to own my house and it is a large home. To be honest I don't know what my sexual preference is. I have been with both, and at this time I am single. I am very light skinned, blonde, have hazel eyes, am 5'10" and a little over weight.  I am of Swedish and Portuguese decent.  My negatives are diabetes and obesity runs on both sides of my family tree.

I am very sincere in this matter and would like to hear from anybody who has an interest in doing this. I must admit my financial means are limited, but I will do whatever I have to in order to accomplish this. Thank you very much for reading this. E-mail: jandersonsilva@verizon.net.

[Submitted and posted on 25 September 2004]

Available Donor, Intelligent and Creative, in Boston Area and Willing to Travel

City: Boston

I'm a sperm donor in Boston, 31, 6'1, 160 lbs, brown hair, hazel eyes, IQ 155. I'm currently working as a software consultant, am generally considered creative and kind, and have both artistic and scientific interests. I have had three pregnancies as a donor, am healthy, and have no family history of medical problems.

I have samples already stored in a cryobank, which can be shipped anywhere. If you prefer not using a clinic, I can also provide fresh samples for home AI. I am willing to travel to nearby states, so if you're reading this from RI/NH/CT/NYC etc, that's fine.

My only requirement is the use of a contract indicating that this is a donation, and that I don't have any paternal rights or responsibilities. I would also like to receive notification of the birth.

I am flexible regarding future contact. I am open to being known by the child, and would always welcome contact. I am also entirely happy with situations where this is not an option, or where you prefer to not have contact.

Feel free to ask any questions at boston@knowndonor.com.

[Posted on 1 January 2003]

Male Couple Seeks to Father Child with Surrogate Mother or Co-parent with Lesbian Couple

City: Framingham
Long-term (14 yrs) male couple, drug & disease free, seek to father a child with a willing surrogate mother/egg-donor or with a lesbian couple that would like to co-parent. We both love children and have decided after much consideration to attempt to find someone or some persons who could help us fulfill our dreams of having one.

We are both educated at Harvard, one in religion and philosophy and the other in ancient history. We are humanists at heart but do well in business. We have been employed at Harvard for over 10 yrs and are successful. We have a very comfortable home in a child-friendly neighborhood in northern Framingham in which we are "uncles" to at least a dozen children.

If you are interested in contacting us, please write to: efmen1@yahoo.com.

[Submitted and posted on 18 December 2002]

Gay Couple Looking for Surrogate Mother

City: Springfield

My partner and I are looking for a surrogate mother to carry our child. We are a professional couple and own our own home. He is a retired NYPD, currently working as an in-home nanny for a 2 1/2 year old and I work for a large insurance company in Hartford.

E-mail: wmbdybuild@aol.com.

[Posted on 15 November 2002]

Lesbian Couple Looking for Sperm Donor

Hello Friend...

We are a lesbian couple involved in a long-term relationship. We own our own house, have 2 automobiles, and a back yard (play ground);) that is JUST WAITING to be filled up with the laughter of a baby! I am an interior design artist-coordinator and she is a mechanical engineer. I am planning to work from home should I become pregnant. I want to raise our children as a stay-at-home mom. I am 36 and she is 50. We are cut out to make WONDERFUL parents! Also...letting the child know your true identity will be up to you. I would prefer an arrangement for the child to meet you after the age of 18.

I am intelligent, philosophical, spiritual and artistic. She is very down to earth and is alot of fun to be with. We would prefer a male who is in good physical and mental health, tan to dark-skinned, brown eyed, brown/black thick curly or wavy hair, up to 5'8" with a small bone structure. We will consider ANY good candidate though because LOVE is all that really matters here! If this sounds interesting to you then please e-mail us at mishy010@attbi.com or madamzz8597@hotmail.com.

Thank you and we hope to hear from you soon. ;)

Michele & Val

[Posted on 22 September 2002]