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BI-SEXUAL WHITE FEMALE LOOKING FOR SPERM DONOR FOR FIRST TIME MOM!

I am looking for a gay man to be a sperm donor for me. I am single and not in a relationship currently. I am 38 going on 39. I am not eligible for any studies in the fertility clinic, which is maddening to say the least. Let me tell you about myself.

I'm 5'3" with brown hair and eyes that have a little bit of hazel in them but are mostly very brown. I am a high school graduate, and I have attended business school and made it all the way thru to the end. I live in Minnesota, and I travel south in the winter on the bus. I love buses and cars, but I hate to fly. I have fears, but mostly it is just too irritating to me with all the security now.

I have wanted children ever since childhood, and I always tell my girlfriend or boyfriend at the time when we are dating that it is what my main interest in life is...hence why I am still single. You would think a woman would want a baby besides me, but so far no takers, because they say two woman can't have a baby. Well they are correct. It hasn't stopped my desire though to have a baby of my own.

If you think adopting being gay is tough in Florida, try adopting as a gay/strait single. The MN agencies say you can adopt single, but what they mean is you had better be 100% gay or strait male. Go figure! I have tried and been turned down many many times. I have depression because of it. My desire is all consuming in my daily thoughts.

My sisters both have children between the ages of 2-22. My brother had a baby last year. Here I sit barren being made fun of in my family because of it. They always say marry then you can have all the babies you want to have in life. Well I am sick of hearing that and waiting to no end in sight. Please! Help make my desire a reality. I love children. I am educated. I am willing to travel, or you can ship sperm to me. I am a god believing individual. I wish to be a mommy in this life so much. Serious Inquiries Only!

I work for a living, but I am able to take the responsibility now and for a few years back to raise a child(ren) on my own, and when the right woman or man comes along we can raise the child(ren) together. I need no financial support in exchange I am willing to let you visit Christmas time, birthdays, and the 4th of July. For more information contact me at Trjomml1@aol.com.

Tanya

[Posted on 28 September 2007]

Single Male wants to be a Dad, ASAP

City: Minneapolis

Like a lot of women, I am having strong urges and desires to have a child of my own. I am actively involved with BBBS but now I want to have my own child. I am committed to becoming a father no matter what it takes.

I am looking for a female to have a child with. Ideally, I would love to be the sole parent to this child but I am open to other situations. I am new to this entire process so please forgive my naive knowledge/wording. All I know is that I want to be a dad and I would love to act on it soon. I know there's all kinds of stigma attached with being a single male that wants a child but I must proceed and act on what my heart tells me.

I am 34 year old healthy male residing in MPLS. I have a home with two dogs, a solid career and an amazing family that also reside here in MN. I enjoy a great life and the only missing link is raising and loving a child of my own.

If you are interested in speaking further or if you have any advice for this newcomer, please feel free to reach out.

Many thanks,
Tyler
tyler@tylercopeland.com

[Posted on 2 February 2007]

Male Seeking to Help Lesbian and Bisexual Women have Child

Known sperm donor through both IVF and natural methods for the female gay community. Have done it with great success, high sperm count. I have light brown hair and baby blue eyes, stand 6 foot 4 inches and have a toned body.  If interested contact me at josh_896@hotmail.com. Willing to travel with help with expenses. I prefer natural method but IVF is cool. Six times I have done this and six successes one set of twins. Have no problem signing rights away or just being an uncle.

[Posted on 25 January 2007]

Gay Male Interested in Donating

I am a 26 yr old professional gay male in a long term committed relationship with my partner. I am interested in "donating" sperm for a couple or individual interested in parenting a child. I would like to be involved with the child, but how much I'm open to discuss. I'm not looking to become a full time father but would enjoy seeing someone's dream of parenting fulfilled.

I have an outgoing personality, above average IQ, warm heart, good values, and good looks. I am 5'11", 155 lbs, brown hair and green eyes. I am of German and Dutch decent and have no family history of mental or physical illnesses. If you are interested in talking, please don't hesitate to contact me at techy21mpls@yahoo.com. Photos of myself can be e-mailed, just contact me.

[Posted on 16 June 2005]

Let's Share a Tremendous Joy

Hi there. I am a 38 yr old Lesbian in Minnesota. I long to be a mother, but feel it's equally important for a child to have a father and positive male role model in his/her life. I am seeking a gay male or gay male couple from the Twin Cities Metropolitan area to correspond with. The subject is legal CO-parenting with shared custody and expenses. I am a healthy, attractive and nurturing person who is financially stable. Please feel free to correspond with me at Msmolly108@aol.com.

Thank you.

Melissa

[Posted on 7 June 2005]

Wanting to be an Involved Known Donor

I am a 32-year-old out gay man living in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I would like to find a kind and generous lesbian couple that would consider me to be an involved known donor.

I'm in good shape at 5'9", 175 lbs, and drug/smoke/disease free. I have red hair/beard, bright brown eyes, and an outgoing creative personality. My ancestral background is mostly European, primarily from Germany and Sweden. I also have a bit of Native American and Jewish ancestry.

I've been in a long-term relationship for 16 years with my husband Joe, married in Toronto on August 28, 2003. Our religious foundations are Christian, but we do not limit our spiritual beliefs to modern Christian church teachings. We both have good relationships with our families.

Graduate of the Perpich Center for Arts Education in 1991, I am now a web and multimedia designer for a Fortune 500 manufacturing company.

For a many years now I've felt the need to create biological family connections. Adopted as a baby, even though I had an excellent relationship with my adoptive family, I didn't have a connection to my birth family when growing up. I found my birth mother a few years ago, which has only increased my desire for a child in my life.

I also know that I'm not ready to be a parent, not in that 24/7/365 for 18 years sort of way. That's why I would like to help you fulfill your desire for a child. I'd just like to be the friendly uncle daddy who can bring over cool new toys, help you with the occasional babysitting, and perhaps share some of this pent up wisdom with the kid as she/he grows up.

You can reach me at drewan@drewan.net. Please put "Your Gay Family Options Ad" in the subject line. Lets start talking and see if our goals can support each other.

You're welcome to check me out further on my website: http://www.drewan.net/about_me.html.

[Posted on 1 June 2005]

Looking for a Sperm Donor....Make Our Family Grow....

We are a very loving Lesbian couple. We want to have a child together. We have been together for 5 yrs and have 4 great boys. I am an Artist and she is a Professional Driver. We live in a small but very accepting town, with great schools and community. We are drug free. There is definatly enough love to go around. An addition would be welcomed. Donor must be between ages 19 and 36 Caucasian, with no history of family birth defects. Donor should be drug-free and negative for HIV and hepatitis. We are not looking to co-parent. Donor must understand the gift he is giving is a part of our family. BeautifulArtT@aol.com.

[Posted on 27 April 2005]

Hetero Known Donor Wanted

City: Minneapolis

Single hetero woman searching for a known donor that is hetero also. I'm 35, presently living in Minnesota, (returning eventually to Southern Cal.) in great health, light brown hair, blue/green eyes, attractive, 5'8"...looking to find the ideal match: Caucasian or European, blonde or brown hair, HEALTHY, 5'9" or taller, attractive... someone wanting to be involved a bit in the child's growing years.

I want the child to know who you are, and to have the chance to form some sort of realtionship with you. I want to have full custody, but will be open to have communications thru visitations, party/holiday appearances, letters, phone calls, etc.

This can be possible thru honesty and open communication, and a good base of friendship. If this sounds like something you would like to be involved with, please email, and include a photo of yourself when you were a child, and how you look presently.

Thank you for reading this, I hope you're out there!

E-mail: a_new_friend1212@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 2 February 2005]

Latino Donor Needed

City: Minneapolis

Loving Lesbian couple (one Caucasian, one Chicana) seeking Latino donor. We have been trying to get pregnant for the past year. Would be thrilled if you wanted to be involved in the child's life, but not necessary. Email: lovepeaceshawn@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 20 November 2004]

Lesbian Couple Seeking KOREAN Sperm Donor

City: Minneapolis

We are seeking a Korean sperm donor, so that my partner and I can pass on our ancestry together.
If interested please contact us at nunonins@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 10 October 2003]

Looking for a Hispanic Sperm Donor

City: St. Paul

I'm looking for a sperm donor who is all Hispanic.

Ecleo931@aol.com.

[Posted on 30 October 2002]