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Smart Man Looking for Co-Parent or Donor/Surrogate

I am 43 year old, 6' 200 lbs black man. I am Ivy League educated who had a math major. I had a career in finance and now am an entrepreneur. I have a great relationship with my parents. I am a looking for a co-parent or someone who wants to be a surrogate/egg donor. If you want to be a co-parent, I am open to having 40% and up of the responsibility. I am stable, responsible, and financially secure. I am looking for the same in a co-parent. Having a child would be the Greatest Blessing.

E-mail: XceptionalDad@aol.com.

[Posted on 19 June 2006]

Seeking a Jewish Woman for Co-Parenting

I am a gay Jew who is looking for a Jewish woman to co-parent with. I am looking for someone who is certain about her direction in life, and is warm, loving and passionate about children.

I am a well established professional who grew up in Israel and served in the Israeli Air Force for 7 years. Later I moved to the US, continuing my professional career for the past 8 years, managing software development in the financial industry [but I am not a geek... ;) ]. I am 36 years old, very healthy, attractive, and intelligent, holding a Masters degree in computer science. I've been living with my partner for the past 2.5 years.

All my life I knew that I would become a father some day. I am passionate about children and I feel that I have a lot to give to a child. I can nurture them and become their role model, as I have for my younger brother and sister. As my parents raised me to become proud of me, I would enjoy raising children and watch them grow up to become responsible, good hearted and successful individuals. I think that a child brings a whole new meaning to a person's life. My partner has children from previous marriage (ages 5 and 8), and is very supportive of me. My involvement with his kids and with my nephew's life since he was born has brought me to the realization that the time has come for me to have my own children to give to.

I think that both parents are important figures in a child's life, and I think that both parents can share the responsibilities of a child's upbringing more easily. I am looking for someone who feels the same, single or in a couple. I am open to a range of arrangements and believe that with the common goal in mind, we can overcome the challenges.

If you feel the same, please contact me at zahip@yahoo.com. (In the picture, I am the one on the left with the white shirt.)

[Posted on 27 December 2004]

In Search of a Known Sperm Donor

We are a loving, committed and professional lesbian couple looking for a common biological father for our future children. We hope to have 2 - 4 children depending on financial and physical feasibility. We are looking for a known sperm donor.

One partner is African-American and 38 year old. The other is Eurasian and is 28 years old. Both partners have/or are pursuing advanced post-baccalaureate degrees. We currently live in New Jersey, but are originally from other regions of the country. We are willing to make and assist with arrangements with donors that are not local.

Because we desire the children to look like us we would prefer: Afro-Asian, Black, Asian, Eurasian candidates. The donor would have no legal or financial obligation. However, we would like to be able to tell the child about the biological father. The degree of contact with the child(ren) is negotiable. We are aware that some known donors may desire a relationship with the children and we are not opposed to contact. However, we are firm in our position that we are the solitary guardians.

If you are interested feel free to contact us at: creatingafamily@aol.com. Be sure to include a comprehensive response about your physical attributes and interests.

[Posted on 19 September 2003]

Looking to be a Co-Parent

City: Newbrunswick

I am 32 yr old Asian Indian looking to be a co-parent. I am very educated, have a good job and am a really nice person. I am caring and loving. I would like to be a co-parent with a lesbian who is looking to have a child or children. I would love to be involved in activities like raising a child. Please contact me if you are interested at sciguyrk@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 26 June 2003]

Intelligent, Educated Pakistani-American Donor

City: Bridgeport (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania suburb)

Hi. I am an intelligent, creative, educated male. Got my MS in nuclear engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. BS in Nuclear Engineering from Columbia University. BA in Liberal Arts from Columbia College. MD from Dow Medical College. Received Outstanding Graduate Award from American Nuclear Society. Am member of Tau Beta Pi, the National Engineering Honor Society. Received citation for Outstanding Achievement from Columbia University. Was elected departmental representative to the Graduate Student Council at MIT. Was elected member of the Executive Committee of MIT chapter of American Nuclear Society. MIT gave me the John Stuart Award for Outstanding Contribution to Extracurricular Activities at MIT.

If you would like an intelligent child, please let me know because I am interested in fathering one. E-mail me at iasjad@aol.com.

Bye,

Asjad

[Posted on 29 March 2003]