Looking for a Sperm Donor

My wife and I are looking for a sperm donor. Recently we have discovered that I have a condition that prevents my body from producing any sperm. I have always wanted children and even though my wife already has two from a previous marriage, she desires another one as well. We tried for two years before finding out that I was sterile and have looked into sperm banks, but we feel that any child we have should have the ability to know who his/her biological father is when the time comes.

We have no preference on ethnicity or religion.

Please if you're interested then let us know. You would be providing a couple one of their greatest dreams.

E-mail: comi8903@uidaho.edu.

[Posted on 16 February 2007]

Lesbian Couple Seeking Sperm Donor (Native American preferred but not required)

We are a young, loving lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. We know finding "the perfect" donor is difficult so we tried to sum up the requirements for any sperm donor we come in contact with. The qualities/ requirements we seek are:

1. intelligent (w/ musical ability is a plus)
2. Native American. Card carrying preferred
3. No mental illness in immediate family (mainly Schizophrenia or multiple personality disorder)
4. willing to give up all paternal rights

This may make us seem picky, but really we aren't. A Native American donor would be awesome, but we know this is nearly impossible. One of us is a card-carrying Native American, and we'd love to carry on the Native blood. If this cannot happen, however, we will not be disappointed. So, even if you aren't a Native American, please still contact us. We just want a healthy, happy baby!

Of course, we will pay all expenses (doctor, travel, etc.)

Please contact us at shann0n747@aol.com.

Thanks,
Shannon and Lisa

[Posted on 8 June 2005]

Gay Male Looking to be a Father

I am a 41 year old gay male in a committed relationship for the past 9 years, living in Seattle. We want to help raise a child with a straight or lesbian woman or couple. I have wanted to be a good father for many years and am in a situation where I can do that. I am stable, financially and emotionally secure and looking for someone who will help me raise our child. I am open to the exact situation...I would consider sharing custody or just being the involved father who doesn't live at home. At a minimum, I want to be involved in his/her life growing up. Thanks and e-mail me for more information.

Steve
E-mail mitsllor2@yahoo.com

[Posted on 4 December 2004]

Looking to Co-parent with Gay Man or Couple

I'm a 35 year old, straight, single woman who is unsure that marriage and the traditional family dynamic are suited for her. What I would like to explore is the possibility of co-parenting with a gay man or couple. You, like me, must be intelligent, well-read, well traveled, erudite, attractive, healthy, HWP, financially secure, and emotionally, mentally, and psychologically stable. Additionally, please be a happy, optimistic person by nature; one who is very sure of wanting a child and all the responsibilities he/she brings. I'm thinking of an every-other-week situation, so you must live in Seattle. If you're interested, please contact me at a2thec09@yahoo.com (and please attach at least one recent photo). Serious inquiries only.

Thank you!
Amy

[Posted on 28 November 2004]

Exploring the Possibilities of Parenting?????

31 year old male, Swedish roots, platinum blond hair, blue-eyed, lightly-freckled, with perfect history of health, great teeth, well-proportioned, attractive and muscular. Seeking a woman or couple interested in discussing donor/parenting options. Location is not an issue, however a caring attitude is. I'm open-minded and investigating the possibilities.

WestBaby57@yahoo.com.

[Submitted and posted on 28 September 2004]

Gay Man, 39, Looking for a Lesbian to Father a Child With

I am gay male, 39 years old, looking for a lesbian to father a child with. I live in Seattle, Washington USA, I want to be a part of the future child's life, want to raise the child differently than society expects, don't want the child raised by religion, and definitely with out a sense of right and wrong, this means no guilt. I am known by all who know me a smart person. Many people think I would be a great father. To email me: manlyhose007@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 15 August 2004]

City: Seattle Area

Hi,

I am happily married man in a unique situation due to my wanting a biological child. My wife, who cannot have children (but loves them), does not wish to be a full time mom due to her career choice (otherwise we'd consider surrogacy or if her salary allowed, surrogacy and I would be a full time, SAH dad). While this difference normally could end a marriage, we're still very much in love and do not wish to separate over it.

So, I am seeking a gay/straight single/married/ woman (or couple) in a committed relationship interested in conceiving a child and who would like to co-parent. My wife supports me completely in this and is as anxious to begin this journey as I am.

I'm interested in fathering a child for what I consider to be healthy reasons. I feel that I have a great deal - emotionally and mentally - to offer a child and as cliché as it sounds, I would like to play a role in bringing one of life's truest miracles into this world. I'm also a great believer in the possibility of children. What better life experience to have than to play a part in raising a child who one day, years later, can say that he or she really enjoys their life and who they are - and by sharing that with others, plays their role in improving the experiences of others. From a big picture perspective that is how the world will change I think - one person at a time.

• AI only
• Child would reside primarily with biological mother
• Child support - open
• We live in the Pacific NW not far from Seattle.
• We're emotionally/financially/physically healthy.
• I (nor my wife) have any known health issues/illnesses.
• Married 12 years, known each other 14.
• Seeking a woman/women looking to co-parent who has/have integrity, a sense of purpose, compassion, a strong sense of humor.
• We have no children.
• Prefer western location.
• My heritage is Irish, German, Swiss and French.

Thanks for reading and please contact us at 2Connors@msn.com if you're interested. Thanks for your consideration and we look forward to hearing from you soon.

Bill C.

[Posted on 15 July 2003]

Stable Loving Gay Couple ISO Surrogate or Stable Lesbian Individual or Couple

City: Kennewick

We are looking for a stable Lesbian Couple, or single individual to act as a surrogate for us. We are hoping to find a someone who is willing to have a child for us, and in return we will provide donor sperm for any child you wish to have. We are not looking for a "Mommy" type for our child, and do not (necessarily) wish to be a "Daddy" type for your child(ren). We are open to discussion on just how involved we each will be in the children's lives, but we really aren't looking for Co-parenting partners.

About you:

You should be healthy, drug-free, well-educated, employed and under 35 (for the health of the pregnancy). You should live in the Pacific Northwest (Washington, Oregon, Idaho or Montana) and have access to healthcare - we will provide pre-natal care through our HMO for "our" child, but you will need to be able to care for "your" child(ren). Race, religion and ethnicity are unimportant, since any child(ren) we have will be loved regardless.

About us:

We are 27 (Willem) and 24 (Don) living in Kennewick, Washington (SE Corner of the state). We both work for Don's parent's family business, and Willem is going back to college for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. We own our own home, with a large fenced yard, in downtown Kennewick, close to schools, the library, police and fire stations, and city hall. There are several parks within walking distance, and the city pool. We have two cats, Sashcha and Zöe, and a Golden Retriever named Rhett. We are both active in our community, being founding members of http://www.desertoasis.org, and members of the local MCC - we will be celebrating our 6th Anniversary of our Holy Union in August, and will have been together for 7 years in October. We are both predominately Caucasian (Willem is part Japanese (1/8), Cherokee (1/16), Irish (3/8) and Dutch (7/16) and Don is mostly Scandinavian (but since his father was adopted, ....?) We both have very supportive families, and our parents can't wait to become grandparents, so they can spoil them rotten and pay us back for the horrible children we were! (lol) We will provide a loving, nurturing home for our child, and can't wait to get started.

If you are interested, please feel free to contact us at doni_n_wil@hotmail.com or at wil_n_doni@hotmail.com. We are looking forward to hearing from you soon!

[Posted on 26 April 2003]

Sperm Donor Wanted

City: Seattle

We are a lesbian couple in search of a sperm donor who can help us. Our ideal: You be Caucasion, of European ancestry, taller than 5'10", educated, drug & disease free. Please be serious about wanting to help us. There will be no sex involved in this process. We are ONLY looking for a donor and you must be willing to release all parental rights.

E-mail:alotofspots01@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 15 November 2002]